+ gray/grey gay: "gray/grey are mlm are more reserved in their public presentation. they prefer to not mute their presentation of themselves in 's an identity centered around the color of their personality." + neon gay: "neons are mlm who express themselves more through color and presentation. Neon/gray/accent gay - neon and gray gays are terms invented to offer an alternative for mlm identity rather than "twink" and" bear" & "top" and "bottom." I am unsure if they are a labels in and of themselves, but can be used as a label if one wants to. Regarding "blue rose" and "ametrine," the terms are used to describe the flag. "isn't achillean a problematic term?" No, read here for more.ĭue to discourse surrounding achillean, other terms and flags have arisen as synonymous alternatives that MLM/NBLM can use if they would like. (these can be used to refer to anyone who is a man and/or nonbinary, and has an attraction to men and/or nonbinary people or aligns themselves with that experience and community.)Īchillean - anyone who falls under the MLM/NBLM label
NBLM - nonbinary loving men also written as NLM (alternatively MLNB - men-loving nonbinary) Gay - used to describe men/nb who are exclusively attracted to men/nb can also be used as a general umbrella term for LGBT+Ĭinthean - a specific term for gay men/nb.
UPDATE: Carrd has a new owner! If you want to suggest a flag or anything else you can dm me on Insta ( creator: are a list of MLM terms, particularly those that are lesser known.
Here's a collection of MLM and gay flags made by the community.